The Hurdles of Forgiveness Forgiveness is a skill, a strength because it is born out of character and does not come easy. It is a mountain encountered on life’s road, a steep climb to condonation, reaching the summit to find peace and healing waiting to embrace you. Without forgiveness, there can be no peace. Forgiveness is a choice, an attitude which must be learned. unlocking chains of bitterness and resentment allowing the spirit to soar free. Forgiveness is a check, ripped in half cashed only by the mind, satisfying all debts. It is the needle that mends the soul. Forgiveness is love.