Love Will Find You Again
A random thought on us..
For the past year, I've been getting to know someone as a friend. I wasn't looking for a relationship neither was she. I wasn't expecting anything out of it. I wasn't at a place in my life where I wanted to be with someone. And so, we would learn about each other. We would have meaningful conversations. We would talk about things with substance. Once the general stuff was out of the way, that's when we got into the deeper things. That's when we really started to open up to each other. That's when we showed our true selves to one another. Keep in mind, this is all happening in a matter of months. This was a process, and a very slow process at that. It like we talked every single day hours at a time. We're both living our own individual lives. We're not really scouting.. potential in other people
People crossed our paths that never seem to measure up. But we've always kept each other in mind, I went to go visit her mobay ,clear to mobay and spend time with her. The most fulfilling thing I got to do with her was to getting to know her better and to really know who she is as a person.
The intimacy was electric..There was a day where we literally sat on a couch for hours and we did nothing but talk and while that might sound boring, that was honestly all I wanted and it was so much fun. To someone to let you look into their soul is such a rarity these days, and I'm fortunate enough to say that I've been able to do that.
Honey what I have learned.. what you have to understand is you have to love someone as a friend first before you could love that person as something more because the friendship between you two has to have a strong spiritual foundation to stand in order for it to even have a chance to grow. Most people skip being friends ..There was never a friendship that was established between the two of you so when the lust wears off and the interest fades, what do you really have with that person? Nothing.
To my best friend, my lover,my soul mate..
'Stimulate a girl's mind first before her body, earn her respect first before her affection, and win her trust first before her love because only something genuine will last and it takes time to build."
Be patient and love will find you again.
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